IT'S OK SOMETIMES TO BE NOT ....................OKAY

 We all know that life is not always on track and otherwise we would have been called train boogies not human beings right.

Why this topic today because I thought to give people a bit of reassurance that it's ok not to be okay.  In today's situation though I  can't contribute financially well maybe my words can help in helping somebody mentally and emotionally so here I am today spreading a bit of empathy to some or maybe to many people who are in some type of stress. I hope this works.

I don't know or I have never believed in being Perfect because that's never in my dictionary. Rather I believe in being honest, straightforward and embracing the truth of life which life has time and now taught everybody. So, how I can be not a part of this. In today's world, we all want to be successful want to have money want to be friends only with people who are of our level I want to ask why. Why do we forget the child inside us who never discriminated between any of his or her friends. Why have we forgot that once when we were not in a good position somebody had helped us and rather what we do we judge we speak shit and we categorise that ooh he or she is not our types and this leads to being not okay and which leads to a lot more turmoils which lead to more problems.

But, have we ever thought that not being okay or being a little different is okay and not just caring about people, friends and society who has never been in our shoes. Many would disagree with me that I might be writing some philosophy that can't be used in our daily lives but my friends it can be it is possible and you know what is the mantra for that ACCEPTANCE. Embracing your own deformities, being happy with your shortfalls is known to be the best way to be not okay. We all have lost friends, gone through breakups, gone through being miserable in life and what not but accepting those make a person win the battle with himself or herself not disapproving yourself. In a movie, an actress had said that "Mai Apni Favorite hun" and this is what is required and we must do it then only we can make ourselves a better person with all the deformities. I don't say don't thrive for success, money or fame but before going for all this just make yourself the person who can be the same person if one day he or she can't have all these and still can be okay because "IT'S OK SOMETIMES NOT TO BE OKAY".